I want to start today's post by apologising, I have been caught up with a lot of things... I'M SORRY FOR THE LONG ABSENCE...!!
Don't let loneliness and desperation make you ignore the red flags. Ignoring them won't make them disappear. It will just hurt worse when it all falls apart - Tony A. Gaskins Jr.
In today's world a lot of us live in silence, burying our hearts and thoughts in a world we call "our own", a state of mind that keeps the heart pondering and worrying about the slightest of things that barely shouldn't matter. A state that leads to confusion which ends up in desperation.
Desperation is the perfume of the young actor. It is so satisfying to have gotten rid of it. If you keep smelling it, it can drive you crazy - Uma Thorman.
I ponder on one aspect today, the desperate desire for the affection given by the other, the feeling of acceptance and love from others. These are cravings of a lonely heart. These feelings live you vulnerable and let your hearts and minds open to accept far less than you deserve.
Everybody is vulnerable to being in relationships where they get fooled. I'm no different, it is just a human nature - Michelle Pfeiffer.
So many people desire to be in real relationships, but cannot even be in a relationship with themselves. You cannot give what you don't have and you cannot receive what you are not ready for. A lot of people are single today and in a dire need to find love, to get in a "serious" relationship and then get married.
Love, Relationship and Marriage...these three words are the ponders of a lonely heart, that make you chase, and keeps your heart in a haste, the words that make you linger and forget about YOU, the words that turn you into a vulnerable soul, forgetting about living in moments and doing whatever it is that makes you happy, the words that make you wish and get you obsessed with married couples or people in real relationships stories...SIGH!!
Don't get things twisted, it's beautiful to be in these "three" words. But let's be in them for the right reasons, let's accept God to bring to us our OWN and let's stop being vulnerable to the evils in which desperation can cause.
Desperation sells you to weak people that use weaker people. Exercise patience and faith along with God's timing
This post is to inspire the SINGLES out there, let's see this as a reminder and kick out of selling ourselves as desperate. Let's fight our loneliness by getting involved in activities and keeping our minds and thoughts busy with things and plans to better OURSELVES.
I am also a victim trying to love myself and awaiting God's time. Read my previous post on Loving Yourself.
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